How to Get that ‘Back to School’ Feeling When You Aren’t in School Anymore

How to Get that ‘Back to School’ Feeling When You Aren’t in School Anymore

We all know that ‘back to school’ feeling. It’s glorious. There’s something about those freshly sharpened pencils, empty notebooks waiting to be filled, a whole school-year of learning and possibility ahead. One of the worst parts of growing up is that you no longer get that fresh start of going back to school. Unless you’re a teacher or a coach, work is pretty much year round. But that doesn’t mean that you have to give up on that fresh start entirely. Here are some tips for how to get that back to school feeling when you’re not in school anymore, and maybe haven’t been in years.

Revamp Your Routine

One of the best parts of going back to school was jumping back into a routine after a summer full of long days and relaxed schedules. Most people don’t love the idea of getting up early, going to bed early, and having to show up at school (or work) at a certain time, but there’s something so decadent about a sturdy schedule and routine.  Here are some things to consider when it comes to revamping your routine.

  • Take a look at your mornings.

Are you getting up early enough to do the things you need to? Are you getting a healthy breakfast every day? Do you start the day with the most important things first? Are you packing your lunch? Figure out what time you need to wake up in order to do everything you need to before it’s time to leave.

  • Take a look at you evenings.

Are you getting enough sleep? Now that you’ve set your morning routine and figured out what time you need to wake up, work backwards to figure out what time you need to go to bed. Write out what your ideal evening routine looks like. Do you put out clothes for the next day? Do you pack lunch the night before? Do you read a book every night? Figure out how much time it’ll take and set a timer in your phone to go off every night when you should be starting your evening routine.

Start a new exercise routine

One thing that a lot of people look forward to when going back to school is the sports and activities that will take place. Did you love PE as a kid? Try to channel that feeling by starting a new exercise routine. Whether it’s running solo, signing up for indoor soccer, or meeting your friend for tennis every Saturday, starting a new exercise routine will definitely give you that back to school feeling. 

Clean out your purse or bag

This was always such an exciting part of the back to school feeling: having a clean, oftentimes brand new backpack to store all your things. You can channel this exciting back to school feeling by cleaning out your current purse. If it’s really needing an update, use this as an opportunity to buy a new one.

Refresh your “school supplies” (aka pens, notebooks, etc.) 

Vying for first place in my favorite things about going back to school as a kid is fresh school supplies. Sadly, we have no need to get fresh colored pencils and mechanical pencils and notebooks every August now that we’ve been out of school for years. Or do we?

We can certainly use this season as an opportunity to revamp our stores. First get rid of all the icky or broken pens. Those ugly ones from the bank that don’t even write well? Definitely get rid of those. This is your fresh start. You probably have way too many pens anyways, so keep only the ones that you love.

Next, refresh your supply. There’s no need to go all out. Even a small investment can give you that back to school feeling. These are my current favorite pens right now, though I also have my eye on these ones. Take stock of any other office or school supplies you might need and take advantage of all the sales going on right now. I just bought this pretty thing and am looking forward to filling it up! 

Clean out your closet (or just clean it up) 

For many kids, going back to school usually meant new clothes or shoes. I’m a firm believer in not buying too many clothes, but you don’t have to actually buy new clothes in order to get that feeling. Go through your closets and drawers and pull out things you don’t love. Then organize what you have left. You might even consider cleaning some of the perfectly good shoes you have that might just be a little bit dusty or worn-looking. Going through my closet and drawers often reminds me of how many clothes I already have that I really love, and I often think of new ways to style things that I hadn’t thought of before. 

Maybe after going through your closet you realized that there’s a piece or two that’s sorely lacking or that could add a little versatility to your wardrobe. A couple small pieces can make your whole wardrobe feel new. I like to look on ThredUp for high-quality yet inexpensive pieces. This referral link will give you $10 off your first order! 

Write your own curriculum

Maybe your favorite part of going back to school was anticipating all the things you would learn about your favorite subject in the coming year. I adored finding out the reading list for my English classes and happily anticipated that (math and science not so much). Create a little bit of anticipation for yourself by creating a list of things you want to read over the next semester, year, or season. You can check out my Fall Reading List for inspiration.

Invest in a course

Hand in hand with writing your own reading list is investing in a course to go through. Think about what skills or topics you’ve been wanting to learn more about. You might not be in school anymore, but that doesn’t mean you need to stop learning. Invest in a course or try out something like Skillshare. Here are some ideas for subjects to learn more about: 

  • Nutrition
  • Hand-lettering
  • Photography
  • Blogging
  • Cooking
  • Personal finance

I’m currently going through a course from Create and Go on blogging and learning so much. 

Check your credit score

There’s something about that back to school feeling that makes you want to get your life in order. Checking your credit history is definitely one way to do that. You can get a free credit report once a year, so the “back to school” time period might be a good time to do it every year. You can learn more about all the credit score basics here

Get back on track financially

Summer can reeeeeeally hurt the budget. Going over your finances and coming up with a plan for the last quarter of the year can make you feel in control and on top of things, two things which definitely are part of that back to school feeling. 

Start saving for the holidays too. I know it’s ridiculously early, but Christmas can be expensive. There’s no reason you should be caught unawares as it happens at the same time every year.

Clean out your spaces

We already talked about cleaning out your closet for that brand new wardrobe feeling. That sparkly clean, freshly decorated classroom that your teacher worked so hard on is also part of the back to school feeling. Channel that by cleaning out your own workspaces. Here are some ideas to get you started.

  • office
  • bookshelves
  • kitchen junk drawer
  • mail system
  • bulletin board
  • calendar

Get a haircut

Lots of kids get fresh haircuts before going back to school every year. If it’s been a while since you had your last cut, schedule an appointment! Nothing feels fresher than getting rid of all those split ends. A fresh color always feels good too.

Make a back to school playlist

Or at least just a playlist for the new season. There’s something about music that defines a certain part of our lives. Be proactive and decide how this season is going to feel for you when you look back. 

Reconnect with friends or make new ones

One of the most exciting things about going back to school was knowing that you were about to reconnect with all your friends that you hadn’t seen all summer. I’ve  discovered that when it comes to seeing your friends, adult life isn’t all that different. So many people travel during the summer and it’s hard to get schedules to align. Send out some texts and plan some time to reconnect with friends during the next few weeks. You’ll all be so glad you did!

Set Positive Expectations

So much of how we experience the world is a result of what we think about. Expect great things from the coming year and you surely won’t be disappointed. I’m not talking about expecting that you’ll win the lottery or meet your soulmate or anything completely out of your hands like that. Expect that you’ll learn new things. Expect that you’ll work hard. Expect that you’ll build friendships. Those are all within your control and having a positive expectation makes them that much more likely to happen. 

What are your plans? 

I’d love eto hear about how you plan to use this back to school feeling this season. Leave a comment and let me know.

Are you on Pinterest?

I pin tons and tons of ideas about all these things. I’d love to connect with you there! You can find all my great pins here.

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What I Learned from Tracking My Time for a Whole Week

What I Learned from Tracking My Time for a Whole Week

One of the best time management tricks I’ve ever read is to track your time for one week. What you do is keep track of alllll the things you spent your time on for an entire week, whether it’s Facebook scrolling or your weekend nap. It sounds like an onerous task, but it’s more than worth it. I’ve done this exercise more than once, and in different seasons of life, and I always learn something new. Here’s what I learned from tracking my time for a whole week this time around. You can find my best tips and tricks for tracking your own time at the end.

What happened in my week: 

  • Doctor appointment – 1h 40 minutes

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

[/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][/et_pb_section]Single-tasking is definitely the way to go. When you track your time, it’s hard to account for 20 different tasks in a 30-minute time block, so I automatically became more aware of how much I multi-task and started working on that right away. I accomplished so much more.

How to track your time

 

The way we spend our time is so personal. By far the best way to figure out how to improve your own time management is to figure out what’s happening with the time you have. Here are some answers I’ve picked up along the way to all the questions I had when I first started tracking my time.

 

Time-tracking methods

Spreadsheet

 

Hands down, the easiest way to track your time is to print out a spreadsheet that has 30 minute blocks of time to fill out. You can get one from Laura Vanderkam’s website here.

Toggl

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

[/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][/et_pb_section]The benefit of time-tracking is that I was forced to realize how much time I “multi-task” but really just hop from one thing to another without making much headway in any category. For example, I usually have about 10 different internet tabs open and hop from one to another to another, while also texting a couple people. It makes me feel so frazzled and takes me forever to read the article or finish the email or whatever the different things are.

 

Single-tasking is definitely the way to go. When you track your time, it’s hard to account for 20 different tasks in a 30-minute time block, so I automatically became more aware of how much I multi-task and started working on that right away. I accomplished so much more.

How to track your time

 

The way we spend our time is so personal. By far the best way to figure out how to improve your own time management is to figure out what’s happening with the time you have. Here are some answers I’ve picked up along the way to all the questions I had when I first started tracking my time.

 

Time-tracking methods

Spreadsheet

 

Hands down, the easiest way to track your time is to print out a spreadsheet that has 30 minute blocks of time to fill out. You can get one from Laura Vanderkam’s website here.

Toggl

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

[/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][/et_pb_section]Productivity experts say that multi-tasking is one of the least productive things you can possibly do. Probably because your brain isn’t actually capable of doing more than one thing at a time. So when you think you’re doing lots of things at once, you’re really just half as effective at both the things you’re trying to do. The only time multi-tasking is actually productive is when one of your tasks is pretty mindless. For example, you can easily listen to a podcast and fold laundry at the same time.

 

The benefit of time-tracking is that I was forced to realize how much time I “multi-task” but really just hop from one thing to another without making much headway in any category. For example, I usually have about 10 different internet tabs open and hop from one to another to another, while also texting a couple people. It makes me feel so frazzled and takes me forever to read the article or finish the email or whatever the different things are.

 

Single-tasking is definitely the way to go. When you track your time, it’s hard to account for 20 different tasks in a 30-minute time block, so I automatically became more aware of how much I multi-task and started working on that right away. I accomplished so much more.

How to track your time

 

The way we spend our time is so personal. By far the best way to figure out how to improve your own time management is to figure out what’s happening with the time you have. Here are some answers I’ve picked up along the way to all the questions I had when I first started tracking my time.

 

Time-tracking methods

Spreadsheet

 

Hands down, the easiest way to track your time is to print out a spreadsheet that has 30 minute blocks of time to fill out. You can get one from Laura Vanderkam’s website here.

Toggl

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

[/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][/et_pb_section]I don’t feel like I spend much time surfing the internet or scrolling Facebook, but my time logs and the moment app give me a different story. I’ve heard of people who will download the Kindle app and read a book when they would normally scroll through social media. They end up finishing way more books than usual. Like a book a week. Little blocks of time here and there don’t feel like a lot, but they really add up. The key is to make them add up to the things that matter to you.

 

I am not very good at single-tasking

Productivity experts say that multi-tasking is one of the least productive things you can possibly do. Probably because your brain isn’t actually capable of doing more than one thing at a time. So when you think you’re doing lots of things at once, you’re really just half as effective at both the things you’re trying to do. The only time multi-tasking is actually productive is when one of your tasks is pretty mindless. For example, you can easily listen to a podcast and fold laundry at the same time.

 

The benefit of time-tracking is that I was forced to realize how much time I “multi-task” but really just hop from one thing to another without making much headway in any category. For example, I usually have about 10 different internet tabs open and hop from one to another to another, while also texting a couple people. It makes me feel so frazzled and takes me forever to read the article or finish the email or whatever the different things are.

 

Single-tasking is definitely the way to go. When you track your time, it’s hard to account for 20 different tasks in a 30-minute time block, so I automatically became more aware of how much I multi-task and started working on that right away. I accomplished so much more.

How to track your time

 

The way we spend our time is so personal. By far the best way to figure out how to improve your own time management is to figure out what’s happening with the time you have. Here are some answers I’ve picked up along the way to all the questions I had when I first started tracking my time.

 

Time-tracking methods

Spreadsheet

 

Hands down, the easiest way to track your time is to print out a spreadsheet that has 30 minute blocks of time to fill out. You can get one from Laura Vanderkam’s website here.

Toggl

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

[/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][/et_pb_section]One time management tip that I learned from Natalie Bacon is to plan out what you’re going to accomplish in each time slot rather than what you’re working on. For example, instead of planning to “clean” you would plan, “dust and vacuum the house.” I think this is really solid advice because it makes it so much easier to take action. The downside is that my estimates for how long things will take have been SO off and then I get frustrated I didn’t achieve the result I planned. Tracking my time has definitely helped with that.

A couple minutes of minutes of Social Media here and there really add up

I don’t feel like I spend much time surfing the internet or scrolling Facebook, but my time logs and the moment app give me a different story. I’ve heard of people who will download the Kindle app and read a book when they would normally scroll through social media. They end up finishing way more books than usual. Like a book a week. Little blocks of time here and there don’t feel like a lot, but they really add up. The key is to make them add up to the things that matter to you.

 

I am not very good at single-tasking

Productivity experts say that multi-tasking is one of the least productive things you can possibly do. Probably because your brain isn’t actually capable of doing more than one thing at a time. So when you think you’re doing lots of things at once, you’re really just half as effective at both the things you’re trying to do. The only time multi-tasking is actually productive is when one of your tasks is pretty mindless. For example, you can easily listen to a podcast and fold laundry at the same time.

 

The benefit of time-tracking is that I was forced to realize how much time I “multi-task” but really just hop from one thing to another without making much headway in any category. For example, I usually have about 10 different internet tabs open and hop from one to another to another, while also texting a couple people. It makes me feel so frazzled and takes me forever to read the article or finish the email or whatever the different things are.

 

Single-tasking is definitely the way to go. When you track your time, it’s hard to account for 20 different tasks in a 30-minute time block, so I automatically became more aware of how much I multi-task and started working on that right away. I accomplished so much more.

How to track your time

 

The way we spend our time is so personal. By far the best way to figure out how to improve your own time management is to figure out what’s happening with the time you have. Here are some answers I’ve picked up along the way to all the questions I had when I first started tracking my time.

 

Time-tracking methods

Spreadsheet

 

Hands down, the easiest way to track your time is to print out a spreadsheet that has 30 minute blocks of time to fill out. You can get one from Laura Vanderkam’s website here.

Toggl

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

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One time management tip that I learned from Natalie Bacon is to plan out what you’re going to accomplish in each time slot rather than what you’re working on. For example, instead of planning to “clean” you would plan, “dust and vacuum the house.” I think this is really solid advice because it makes it so much easier to take action. The downside is that my estimates for how long things will take have been SO off and then I get frustrated I didn’t achieve the result I planned. Tracking my time has definitely helped with that.

A couple minutes of minutes of Social Media here and there really add up

I don’t feel like I spend much time surfing the internet or scrolling Facebook, but my time logs and the moment app give me a different story. I’ve heard of people who will download the Kindle app and read a book when they would normally scroll through social media. They end up finishing way more books than usual. Like a book a week. Little blocks of time here and there don’t feel like a lot, but they really add up. The key is to make them add up to the things that matter to you.

 

I am not very good at single-tasking

Productivity experts say that multi-tasking is one of the least productive things you can possibly do. Probably because your brain isn’t actually capable of doing more than one thing at a time. So when you think you’re doing lots of things at once, you’re really just half as effective at both the things you’re trying to do. The only time multi-tasking is actually productive is when one of your tasks is pretty mindless. For example, you can easily listen to a podcast and fold laundry at the same time.

 

The benefit of time-tracking is that I was forced to realize how much time I “multi-task” but really just hop from one thing to another without making much headway in any category. For example, I usually have about 10 different internet tabs open and hop from one to another to another, while also texting a couple people. It makes me feel so frazzled and takes me forever to read the article or finish the email or whatever the different things are.

 

Single-tasking is definitely the way to go. When you track your time, it’s hard to account for 20 different tasks in a 30-minute time block, so I automatically became more aware of how much I multi-task and started working on that right away. I accomplished so much more.

How to track your time

 

The way we spend our time is so personal. By far the best way to figure out how to improve your own time management is to figure out what’s happening with the time you have. Here are some answers I’ve picked up along the way to all the questions I had when I first started tracking my time.

 

Time-tracking methods

Spreadsheet

 

Hands down, the easiest way to track your time is to print out a spreadsheet that has 30 minute blocks of time to fill out. You can get one from Laura Vanderkam’s website here.

Toggl

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

[/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][/et_pb_section]This is another one that really surprised me. I really didn’t feel like I spent that much time reading. This also includes audiobooks, but only if I wasn’t multi-tasking.  This means that the audiobooks I listened to while driving for 7 hours and while cleaning and doing dishes aren’t included, so total number of hours spent reading was probably like 28 hours. We can thank the lack of Netflix for this number.

 

  • Sleeping – 59 hours

An average of 8.4 hours per night, but that includes the multiple naps I took, which almost never happens. Laura Vanderkam shares that she’s learned through tracking her time for years that she averages about 7.4 hours of sleep each night. It seems our bodies tend to have ways for making us catch up on sleep after a while.

  • Internet – 4 hours

I didn’t really keep track of what I was doing on the internet, just that I was. So this could include blog reading, social media, random research (like how to grow an avocado tree), and so on. Four hours doesn’t look too bad, but I know it’s not the whole truth. I have this app on my phone, which tells me I’m using my phone between 1-2 hours a day. Those few minutes of Facebook scrolling at a time really add up. 

  • Cleaning – 5.5 hours 

I was surprised by how much this was because I don’t feel like I usually clean this much. This includes anything from dishes to doing laundry and putting clothes away. The good news is that I can stop feeling like such a slacker.

My Biggest Takeaways

I always learn SO MUCH when I track my time. There are always things that surprise me. Here are my biggest takeaways from the week of tracking my time.

I’m terrible at estimating how much time I spend on things

We go through life with a general feeling that we’re not spending enough time doing such and such or we’re doing too much of this thing. Impressions can be MUCH different than reality, however.

I overestimated unpleasant tasks

 I honestly thought that it took me fooooorever to do the dishes after dinner. This is one of my least favorite tasks and I always dread slaving away at the kitchen sink for what feels like forever. When I started tracking my time and became more aware of how things took, I realized that it only takes like 10 minutes tops to do the dishes AND clean the entirety of our tiny kitchen. What seemed like a huge task really isn’t.

Many of the things that hung over my head and felt like huge tasks really weren’t in the end. There was an email I agonized over for two weeks. When I finally sat down to do what I thought would be excruciating work to send it out, it only took 15 minutes, and that was with me procrastinating for the first 5 minutes the timer was going! Those two weeks of worry were a lot of wasted energy. 

I underestimate time spent on pleasant tasks

Just as much as I overestimated how much time tasks I didn’t like took, I underestimated how much time I was spending on things I loved. I love reading and never feel like I do it enough. Before tracking my time, I’d probably bet that I spent about an hour a day reading. And yet I spent 17+ hours reading in one week. Even more if you count the audiobooks I listened to during my 7 hours of driving and 5 hours of cleaning. That’s a lot.

I also always feel like I’m never doing “enough” for my blog, and yet I spent almost 20 hours working on it last week. With a full-time job and the general demands of life, I doubt I could squeeze in much more time. That means I can stop feeling guilty for all the things I’m not doing.

I gained more realistic estimates on how long it takes me to complete a task

 Once I figured out how bad I was at estimating how much time I spend on things, I began to figure out more realistic estimates. This is beneficial for two reasons:

  1. It makes my planning sessions more valuable
  2.  I’m able to plan outcomes rather than just what I’m working on

When I’m writing out a to-do list and planning out my day, I kind of write out a wish list of things I want to get done and pray it actually happens. Really my plans are more like a hail mary than an actual plan. But now that I have a better idea of how long things take, I can write my to-do list with realistic expectations and actually cross things off at the end of the day. 

One time management tip that I learned from Natalie Bacon is to plan out what you’re going to accomplish in each time slot rather than what you’re working on. For example, instead of planning to “clean” you would plan, “dust and vacuum the house.” I think this is really solid advice because it makes it so much easier to take action. The downside is that my estimates for how long things will take have been SO off and then I get frustrated I didn’t achieve the result I planned. Tracking my time has definitely helped with that.

A couple minutes of minutes of Social Media here and there really add up

I don’t feel like I spend much time surfing the internet or scrolling Facebook, but my time logs and the moment app give me a different story. I’ve heard of people who will download the Kindle app and read a book when they would normally scroll through social media. They end up finishing way more books than usual. Like a book a week. Little blocks of time here and there don’t feel like a lot, but they really add up. The key is to make them add up to the things that matter to you.

 

I am not very good at single-tasking

Productivity experts say that multi-tasking is one of the least productive things you can possibly do. Probably because your brain isn’t actually capable of doing more than one thing at a time. So when you think you’re doing lots of things at once, you’re really just half as effective at both the things you’re trying to do. The only time multi-tasking is actually productive is when one of your tasks is pretty mindless. For example, you can easily listen to a podcast and fold laundry at the same time.

 

The benefit of time-tracking is that I was forced to realize how much time I “multi-task” but really just hop from one thing to another without making much headway in any category. For example, I usually have about 10 different internet tabs open and hop from one to another to another, while also texting a couple people. It makes me feel so frazzled and takes me forever to read the article or finish the email or whatever the different things are.

 

Single-tasking is definitely the way to go. When you track your time, it’s hard to account for 20 different tasks in a 30-minute time block, so I automatically became more aware of how much I multi-task and started working on that right away. I accomplished so much more.

How to track your time

 

The way we spend our time is so personal. By far the best way to figure out how to improve your own time management is to figure out what’s happening with the time you have. Here are some answers I’ve picked up along the way to all the questions I had when I first started tracking my time.

 

Time-tracking methods

Spreadsheet

 

Hands down, the easiest way to track your time is to print out a spreadsheet that has 30 minute blocks of time to fill out. You can get one from Laura Vanderkam’s website here.

Toggl

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

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  • Reading – 17 hours

This is another one that really surprised me. I really didn’t feel like I spent that much time reading. This also includes audiobooks, but only if I wasn’t multi-tasking.  This means that the audiobooks I listened to while driving for 7 hours and while cleaning and doing dishes aren’t included, so total number of hours spent reading was probably like 28 hours. We can thank the lack of Netflix for this number.

 

  • Sleeping – 59 hours

An average of 8.4 hours per night, but that includes the multiple naps I took, which almost never happens. Laura Vanderkam shares that she’s learned through tracking her time for years that she averages about 7.4 hours of sleep each night. It seems our bodies tend to have ways for making us catch up on sleep after a while.

  • Internet – 4 hours

I didn’t really keep track of what I was doing on the internet, just that I was. So this could include blog reading, social media, random research (like how to grow an avocado tree), and so on. Four hours doesn’t look too bad, but I know it’s not the whole truth. I have this app on my phone, which tells me I’m using my phone between 1-2 hours a day. Those few minutes of Facebook scrolling at a time really add up. 

  • Cleaning – 5.5 hours 

I was surprised by how much this was because I don’t feel like I usually clean this much. This includes anything from dishes to doing laundry and putting clothes away. The good news is that I can stop feeling like such a slacker.

My Biggest Takeaways

I always learn SO MUCH when I track my time. There are always things that surprise me. Here are my biggest takeaways from the week of tracking my time.

I’m terrible at estimating how much time I spend on things

We go through life with a general feeling that we’re not spending enough time doing such and such or we’re doing too much of this thing. Impressions can be MUCH different than reality, however.

I overestimated unpleasant tasks

 I honestly thought that it took me fooooorever to do the dishes after dinner. This is one of my least favorite tasks and I always dread slaving away at the kitchen sink for what feels like forever. When I started tracking my time and became more aware of how things took, I realized that it only takes like 10 minutes tops to do the dishes AND clean the entirety of our tiny kitchen. What seemed like a huge task really isn’t.

Many of the things that hung over my head and felt like huge tasks really weren’t in the end. There was an email I agonized over for two weeks. When I finally sat down to do what I thought would be excruciating work to send it out, it only took 15 minutes, and that was with me procrastinating for the first 5 minutes the timer was going! Those two weeks of worry were a lot of wasted energy. 

I underestimate time spent on pleasant tasks

Just as much as I overestimated how much time tasks I didn’t like took, I underestimated how much time I was spending on things I loved. I love reading and never feel like I do it enough. Before tracking my time, I’d probably bet that I spent about an hour a day reading. And yet I spent 17+ hours reading in one week. Even more if you count the audiobooks I listened to during my 7 hours of driving and 5 hours of cleaning. That’s a lot.

I also always feel like I’m never doing “enough” for my blog, and yet I spent almost 20 hours working on it last week. With a full-time job and the general demands of life, I doubt I could squeeze in much more time. That means I can stop feeling guilty for all the things I’m not doing.

I gained more realistic estimates on how long it takes me to complete a task

 Once I figured out how bad I was at estimating how much time I spend on things, I began to figure out more realistic estimates. This is beneficial for two reasons:

  1. It makes my planning sessions more valuable
  2.  I’m able to plan outcomes rather than just what I’m working on

When I’m writing out a to-do list and planning out my day, I kind of write out a wish list of things I want to get done and pray it actually happens. Really my plans are more like a hail mary than an actual plan. But now that I have a better idea of how long things take, I can write my to-do list with realistic expectations and actually cross things off at the end of the day. 

One time management tip that I learned from Natalie Bacon is to plan out what you’re going to accomplish in each time slot rather than what you’re working on. For example, instead of planning to “clean” you would plan, “dust and vacuum the house.” I think this is really solid advice because it makes it so much easier to take action. The downside is that my estimates for how long things will take have been SO off and then I get frustrated I didn’t achieve the result I planned. Tracking my time has definitely helped with that.

A couple minutes of minutes of Social Media here and there really add up

I don’t feel like I spend much time surfing the internet or scrolling Facebook, but my time logs and the moment app give me a different story. I’ve heard of people who will download the Kindle app and read a book when they would normally scroll through social media. They end up finishing way more books than usual. Like a book a week. Little blocks of time here and there don’t feel like a lot, but they really add up. The key is to make them add up to the things that matter to you.

 

I am not very good at single-tasking

Productivity experts say that multi-tasking is one of the least productive things you can possibly do. Probably because your brain isn’t actually capable of doing more than one thing at a time. So when you think you’re doing lots of things at once, you’re really just half as effective at both the things you’re trying to do. The only time multi-tasking is actually productive is when one of your tasks is pretty mindless. For example, you can easily listen to a podcast and fold laundry at the same time.

 

The benefit of time-tracking is that I was forced to realize how much time I “multi-task” but really just hop from one thing to another without making much headway in any category. For example, I usually have about 10 different internet tabs open and hop from one to another to another, while also texting a couple people. It makes me feel so frazzled and takes me forever to read the article or finish the email or whatever the different things are.

 

Single-tasking is definitely the way to go. When you track your time, it’s hard to account for 20 different tasks in a 30-minute time block, so I automatically became more aware of how much I multi-task and started working on that right away. I accomplished so much more.

How to track your time

 

The way we spend our time is so personal. By far the best way to figure out how to improve your own time management is to figure out what’s happening with the time you have. Here are some answers I’ve picked up along the way to all the questions I had when I first started tracking my time.

 

Time-tracking methods

Spreadsheet

 

Hands down, the easiest way to track your time is to print out a spreadsheet that has 30 minute blocks of time to fill out. You can get one from Laura Vanderkam’s website here.

Toggl

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

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Last week I had to do allergy testing, which meant I had to go to the allergist several times. I’m honestly surprised that it didn’t take up more of my time, though the commute isn’t included in this. In my mind, it felt like this big, giant thing that took forever, but apparently I only spent less than two hours in the office. Though I DID spend at least that amount the week before too.

  • Blog – 19 hours

I was really proud of myself for this one. I used every spare moment I had for the blog and it really paid off. With time, I’ll get better at making the time I do spend count for more.

 

  • Driving- 7 hours

 

I expected this to be much longer. I’m wondering if I forgot to log a couple trips. It also might be shorter because I work 9 hour days so I can take every other Friday off. Normally I think I spend about 9 hours a week in the car, which is a clue that I should make sure that I put it to good use.

  • Reading – 17 hours

This is another one that really surprised me. I really didn’t feel like I spent that much time reading. This also includes audiobooks, but only if I wasn’t multi-tasking.  This means that the audiobooks I listened to while driving for 7 hours and while cleaning and doing dishes aren’t included, so total number of hours spent reading was probably like 28 hours. We can thank the lack of Netflix for this number.

 

  • Sleeping – 59 hours

An average of 8.4 hours per night, but that includes the multiple naps I took, which almost never happens. Laura Vanderkam shares that she’s learned through tracking her time for years that she averages about 7.4 hours of sleep each night. It seems our bodies tend to have ways for making us catch up on sleep after a while.

  • Internet – 4 hours

I didn’t really keep track of what I was doing on the internet, just that I was. So this could include blog reading, social media, random research (like how to grow an avocado tree), and so on. Four hours doesn’t look too bad, but I know it’s not the whole truth. I have this app on my phone, which tells me I’m using my phone between 1-2 hours a day. Those few minutes of Facebook scrolling at a time really add up. 

  • Cleaning – 5.5 hours 

I was surprised by how much this was because I don’t feel like I usually clean this much. This includes anything from dishes to doing laundry and putting clothes away. The good news is that I can stop feeling like such a slacker.

My Biggest Takeaways

I always learn SO MUCH when I track my time. There are always things that surprise me. Here are my biggest takeaways from the week of tracking my time.

I’m terrible at estimating how much time I spend on things

We go through life with a general feeling that we’re not spending enough time doing such and such or we’re doing too much of this thing. Impressions can be MUCH different than reality, however.

I overestimated unpleasant tasks

 I honestly thought that it took me fooooorever to do the dishes after dinner. This is one of my least favorite tasks and I always dread slaving away at the kitchen sink for what feels like forever. When I started tracking my time and became more aware of how things took, I realized that it only takes like 10 minutes tops to do the dishes AND clean the entirety of our tiny kitchen. What seemed like a huge task really isn’t.

Many of the things that hung over my head and felt like huge tasks really weren’t in the end. There was an email I agonized over for two weeks. When I finally sat down to do what I thought would be excruciating work to send it out, it only took 15 minutes, and that was with me procrastinating for the first 5 minutes the timer was going! Those two weeks of worry were a lot of wasted energy. 

I underestimate time spent on pleasant tasks

Just as much as I overestimated how much time tasks I didn’t like took, I underestimated how much time I was spending on things I loved. I love reading and never feel like I do it enough. Before tracking my time, I’d probably bet that I spent about an hour a day reading. And yet I spent 17+ hours reading in one week. Even more if you count the audiobooks I listened to during my 7 hours of driving and 5 hours of cleaning. That’s a lot.

I also always feel like I’m never doing “enough” for my blog, and yet I spent almost 20 hours working on it last week. With a full-time job and the general demands of life, I doubt I could squeeze in much more time. That means I can stop feeling guilty for all the things I’m not doing.

I gained more realistic estimates on how long it takes me to complete a task

 Once I figured out how bad I was at estimating how much time I spend on things, I began to figure out more realistic estimates. This is beneficial for two reasons:

  1. It makes my planning sessions more valuable
  2.  I’m able to plan outcomes rather than just what I’m working on

When I’m writing out a to-do list and planning out my day, I kind of write out a wish list of things I want to get done and pray it actually happens. Really my plans are more like a hail mary than an actual plan. But now that I have a better idea of how long things take, I can write my to-do list with realistic expectations and actually cross things off at the end of the day. 

One time management tip that I learned from Natalie Bacon is to plan out what you’re going to accomplish in each time slot rather than what you’re working on. For example, instead of planning to “clean” you would plan, “dust and vacuum the house.” I think this is really solid advice because it makes it so much easier to take action. The downside is that my estimates for how long things will take have been SO off and then I get frustrated I didn’t achieve the result I planned. Tracking my time has definitely helped with that.

A couple minutes of minutes of Social Media here and there really add up

I don’t feel like I spend much time surfing the internet or scrolling Facebook, but my time logs and the moment app give me a different story. I’ve heard of people who will download the Kindle app and read a book when they would normally scroll through social media. They end up finishing way more books than usual. Like a book a week. Little blocks of time here and there don’t feel like a lot, but they really add up. The key is to make them add up to the things that matter to you.

 

I am not very good at single-tasking

Productivity experts say that multi-tasking is one of the least productive things you can possibly do. Probably because your brain isn’t actually capable of doing more than one thing at a time. So when you think you’re doing lots of things at once, you’re really just half as effective at both the things you’re trying to do. The only time multi-tasking is actually productive is when one of your tasks is pretty mindless. For example, you can easily listen to a podcast and fold laundry at the same time.

 

The benefit of time-tracking is that I was forced to realize how much time I “multi-task” but really just hop from one thing to another without making much headway in any category. For example, I usually have about 10 different internet tabs open and hop from one to another to another, while also texting a couple people. It makes me feel so frazzled and takes me forever to read the article or finish the email or whatever the different things are.

 

Single-tasking is definitely the way to go. When you track your time, it’s hard to account for 20 different tasks in a 30-minute time block, so I automatically became more aware of how much I multi-task and started working on that right away. I accomplished so much more.

How to track your time

 

The way we spend our time is so personal. By far the best way to figure out how to improve your own time management is to figure out what’s happening with the time you have. Here are some answers I’ve picked up along the way to all the questions I had when I first started tracking my time.

 

Time-tracking methods

Spreadsheet

 

Hands down, the easiest way to track your time is to print out a spreadsheet that has 30 minute blocks of time to fill out. You can get one from Laura Vanderkam’s website here.

Toggl

If you’re like me, you probably think that technology must have developed a better way to track your time than by carrying around a sheet of paper. It has and it hasn’t. I used Toggl because I wasn’t very good at remembering to write stuff on the paper, and I wanted the flexibility to track more exact amounts of time, like 10 minutes instead of just 30 minutes (I’m an overachiever that way). But Toggl isn’t the most intuitive thing to use, especially if you have to backtrack and add things you forgot. The benefit, however, is that it automatically puts together reports for you at the end so you can see where all your time went. Experiment with both and see what works best!

What if I forgot to write something down?

 

If you forgot to track your time for a few hours (or even a day. It happens….) then the first thing you should do is start filling in what you remember. Most of the time this jogs my memory of what I did before or after and I can fill in whole days this way if I need to.

 

It’s tempting to completely quit if you get behind, but the information you’ll glean is so valuable, so don’t fall into the temptation! If you missed a day or two and don’t want to bother backtracking, just skip those two days and tack on a couple more at the end.

 

I finished tracking my time for a whole week. Now what?

 

Now is when you sift through the data, tally up how much you spent on what, and analyze the results. It might be tempting to skip this step, but this is where the gold is. Until you add up how much time you spend driving or Facebook scrolling or whatever it may be, your estimate is probably going to be way off. Take some time to look through where your time went. 

  • Give yourself a pat on the back for all the great ways you spent your time.
  • Think about solutions to potential time drains.
  • Think about what you’d like to spend more time on and how you can fit that in to your week.

Conclusion 

Time management isn’t one of those things that can improve overnight, but tracking your time for a week is about as close as you can get. Just the act of writing things down makes you more aware. Analyzing the results at the end helps you come up with creative solutions to your time management woes. Most importantly, the longer you stay consistent in being aware of your time and improving how you spend it, the better off you’ll be in the long run. Before you know it you’ll be spending your days doing only the things that matter most to you.

Have you ever tracked your time? Are you going to try it now? Leave a comment and let me know what you learned!

 

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August Goals

August Goals

Each month I write a recap of how the previous month’s goals went (ie I usually confess) and then I list out my goals for next month. The reason that I do this is twofold. For one, it causes me to think through how I actually want to be spending my resources over the next month, both in my time and with my finances. Looking back and analyzing how the last month is also important. It helps me learn from my mistakes so I can do better next month. But more than just learning from mistakes, it helps me learn what works for me and whether my goals were even realistic or worthwhile. I hope that as I work through these August goals, that it can help you with setting and achieving the things that are important to you as well.

Lessons from July

I definitely need to get more sleep.

I’m one of those people that needs at least 8 hours of sleep, which sounds ridiculous to me. I wish I could just get 6 or 7 hours and power through, but eventually I shut down. There were multiple nights where I was falling asleep on the couch at 7 pm, and I took a few long naps on the weekend, which is really unusual for me.

I love life without Netflix.

I didn’t set out to be a television-hater. It makes me feel old and stingy and uncool. But we cancelled our Netflix account last month and I’ve been loving it. The first few days were hard but I adjusted pretty quickly. I’ve had a lot more time to do things that I’ve really wanted to, like go after all of my July goals. If the thought of giving up tv scares you to death, here are some ideas of ways to relax without it.

I need people who are different than me.

I spent some time with friends who have much different personalities than me last week and had a wonderful time. They’re all so playful, fun-loving, and hilarious, which is not how I usually am. It made me think about how important it is to surround yourself with people who have different strengths than you. They can bring out the best in you and you can lean on them for their unique strengths in different situations.

July Wins

Eat Clean

We did a pretty good job eating clean, though we certainly could have done better. It’s not very often that we’ll have a “perfect” month, but the important thing is that we keep working at it. Last month I started buying hummus and eating that with fresh veggies and it was a game changer for my vegetable intake. I had no idea that I love hummus so much. It’s definitely something I want to keep doing for August.

Start a running plan

We did it! We made this a part of our routine and kept at it for the whole month. We used this app because I am NOT a runner. It’s always been hard for me and probably always will be. My husband definitely could have run much farther and faster, but he was sweet enough to stick to my pace 🙂

Read 7 books

I actually surpassed this goal by finishing 9 books. Granted, half of them were already half completed, but that’s still a lot of reading. I attribute this to listening to a couple audiobooks during my commute (about an hour every workday), and giving up Netflix. Reading feels like such an unnecessary luxury to me, but it really fills me up and gives me lots of important things to think about, so making time for it will probably always be an important priority for me. I only have two titles left to finish from my Summer Reading List!

Find a budgeting technique to try out

I did some research and we have a plan for a budget to try out next month! Neither one of us have experimented with different budgeting techniques so I’m curious to see how this will work for us. I’m sure I’ll write more on that soon 🙂

Goals to save for later

I don’t want to call anything I didn’t get to a complete failure because I don’t feel like that’s very helpful or constructive. There are usually a handful of things each month that I just didn’t get to. It’s hard to find that sweet spot in goal setting where you set goals high enough that you have to stretch a little to reach them but low enough that they’re actually achievable. I think I’m getting better at this every month. This month there was only one goal I didn’t get to.

CLEAN OUT MY IPHONE PICTURES

Last month I had 11,288 photos on my phone. This month I have 11,388. I spent about 20 minutes deleting pictures but I DEFINITELY need a better strategy. Or I at least need to put some time into it. Hopefully I’ll have good things to report next month!

August Goals

Going forward, I’ve decided to try setting goals in 7 basic categories (based on what I found from Natalie Bacon)! I’m doing this so that I can make sure that I’m developing all the different areas of my life. It also helps me when I’m planning. Sometimes when I sit down to write out my goals, I draw a complete blank! Categories help me think of the things that are important to me and make sure I’m not neglecting anything.  As you can see, some months I’ll lean more heavily into certain categories

health

  • Clean out my beauty products

After years of wondering why I couldn’t figure out how to care for my skin, I finally discovered that I have contact dermatitis caused by certain ingredients and most likely rosacea as well. I’ve been meeting with an allergist to figure out what ingredients I’m sensitive to, but I need to finish the process. Once I have the full list, I’ll clean out the products that aren’t on my “safe list” and go from there. I’m looking forward to it from a minimalism perspective too.

  • Start a strength training plan

Last month my goal to start a running plan went really well! At least in regards to my faithfulness in following through. What didn’t quite work out was that my body wasn’t quite ready for running, even though I started with an easy plan.

relationships

  • Plan a fun date night with my husband

We’re both homebodies that loooooove staying in. At the same time, I think we could have a lot of fun if we went out more. I’m beginning to realize that this probably won’t happen spontaneously, so planning ahead it is!

money

  • Get our food budget under control

This feels like the last frontier as far as budgeting goes for us. For some reason, we wend up going over in our budget every single month. I think this is in large part due to a lack of organization. The first part of the goal is to do a better job of meal planning and grocery shopping only once a week. The second part of the plan is to only use cash for food and restaurants for the entire month. Once the money is out, we’ll either be hungry or more creative.

career/blog

  • Get ahead!

I’m a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kinda girl, but I’m striving to become more organized and proactive. My goal is to work really hard and get one full month ahead on content for the blog. It’ll be a lot of work, but I think I can do it!

  • Implement strategies from my blog course

I took a leap of faith and invested in this course a month or two ago and it’s been a huge help. I have a tendency to be a passive learner, but I want to get better at taking action and implementing all the things that I learn. Starting with this.

personal development

  • Focus on improving my prayer life

I had a discussion with some women from my church a few months ago about spiritual disciplines and how we all have ones that we’re naturally good at. Prayer is the spiritual discipline where I could use some improvement. I’m looking forward to leaning into this for one of my August goals. I plan on doing this by reading a book about prayer (because that’s how I begin to solve any problem) and set aside time to pray each morning.

environment

  • Clean out my iPhone pictures

You’ve already seen why I badly need to do this!

  • Organize my bookshelf

It could be worse. But it could also be better 🙂

fun

  • Read a YA novel

I don’t read a lot of YA these days, but I definitely wish I read more. What should I start with?

service

  • Donate clothes

To be honest, it feels kind of funny putting this in this category because it feels like a service to myself. But I know that being intentional about donating my clothes somewhere they could use them is much better than dropping them off at Goodwill. If you live in Oklahoma, definitely consider donating clothes to this ministry.

How about you?

I’d love to hear what you have planned this month. Any big goals? Little goals? Leave a comment and let me know!

How to Bounce Back After Vacation

How to Bounce Back After Vacation

I’ve heard so many people say that they need a post-vacation vacation, and I’ve certainly felt like this a number of times. Traveling is exhausting. Oftentimes, when you’re on vacation, you spend a lot more time than usual out in the sun or walking around. This is especially true if you have an office job. This can make going back to normal life rough, and not just because you’re missing the exotic locale. Here are some great tips for how to bounce back after vacation, most of which were learned the hard way 😉 .

how to bounce back after vacation

Before you leave

Getting ready to leave for your vacation is certainly a feat in and of itself. But if you can do these things before you leave, it’ll make your reentry into normal life SO much more bearable.

Schedule grocery pickup ahead of time

I love using Walmart Grocery on occasions like these. It requires so much less energy to add things to your electronic cart than to a real one. You can add groceries to your cart at the same time you do your meal planning to save the most amount of time. The day after you get back (or day of if you get in early enough), plan on swinging by the grocery store to have your food brought to your trunk by someone else. One of the worst things about returning from vacation is having an empty fridge and nothing to eat.

Have a pizza in your freezer

This is a game changer. You’re probably eager to start eating healthy after all that vacation indulgence, but one night of pizza won’t kill you. The last thing you want to do is cook a meal right after getting back.

Leave the house as clean as possible

I’m not saying this is super easy. As mentioned earlier, it’s plenty difficult just getting packed and getting yourself on a plane or in a car. But the cleaner the house when you leave, the smoother the reentry when you get back. No one wants to scrub crusty dishes in their post-vacation glow.

Change your sheets

This feels a little extra to me, but it’s SO worth it. There’s nothing nicer than snuggling up in clean sheets in your own bed after sleeping in unfamiliar places for a while. Your future self will thank you for this.

When you return

Unpack right away

This sounds like the least fun thing in the world when you get home. After all, you really need to reintroduce yourself to your favorite spot on the couch. But I’ve noticed personally that if I don’t unpack within the first 30 minutes, then I won’t unpack for DAYS. I don’t know how to explain this phenomenon, but I suspect that I’m not the only one that suffers from it. Unpacking won’t take as long as you think and you’ll feel SO much better.

Start your laundry ASAP

If you get back late at night, that’s obviously not an ideal situation. But the sooner you start your laundry, the sooner you’ll be done with it, and that’ll feel great. Besides, you’ve already unpacked your suitcase right? All you need to do is throw it in the wash.

Try not to plan anything for the first few days

It’s tempting to jump right back in to the social life that you’ve been missing out on for your trip, but that just extends the recovery process and you’ll burn yourself out. If you can, give yourself an extra day in-between getting back and going back to work, and plan on using that time to get organized, rest, and have some much-needed alone time.

Eat the healthy foods you preordered

After that pizza you ate the first night, you’ll definitely want to start eating healthy again. Vacation is always full of indulgence and trying out new food, but it definitely takes a toll on your body. If you want to bounce back to normal life as soon as possible, it’s important to eat healthy. It’ll help you recover faster and feel your best.

Drink lots of water

I’m not sure why traveling is so dehydrating, but it definitely is. You probably didn’t drink as much water as you needed. Guzzle up as much water as you possibly can. Trust me, you’ll feel better. This is definitely how to bounce back after vacation.

Exercise

You don’t want to waste all that walking you did on vacation right? The sooner you get back into (or start from scratch) an exercise routine, the sooner you’ll feel better. This is especially helpful if you’ve switched time zones and it’s messed up your sleep schedule.

Sift through your pictures

It’s easy to immediately jump into normal life without taking a moment to appreciate the amazing vacation you just experienced. Take some time to go through your pictures, maybe organizing them and posting them on social media.  I find that this helps mentally close one chapter before you enter the next one.

Have an exciting book to look forward to

This is for all you fellow bookworms out there. Bonus points if it’s set in the place you just returned from. Sounds like a fun way to relive some of the now-familiar places and be able to picture the scenes in the book that much better.

Write down what you love about home

A lot of us naturally make mental notes of what we love about home when coming home from vacation. There’s nothing quite like home after being away. But if you’re missing the free-spirited, exotic vibes of your vacation, it can be helpful to dwell on what you love about being home too. Maybe it’s your comfy bed or the way the light shines at a particular time of day. Maybe you have great coworkers that you’re super thankful to work with. Whatever it is, write it down and be thankful that you live where you do!

Reacquaint yourself with your goals

Things like professional or personal goals tend to get put on the back burner while away from home, which is a good thing! You need a break every now and then. Take advantage of the fresh perspective by reevaluating some of your goals and reminding yourself why they’re important. This will make jumping back in to that early morning exercise regimen or sitting down to work on your creative goals instead of watch tv a little easier.

Make a List of Important Tasks

I’m sure there’s a pile of things waiting for you when you get home, whether it’s in your personal life or your work life. Take a minute to write down all the things that you need to do and then prioritize them so you know what to start with. Having a plan for how to tackle what you need to do can help you feel much less stressed.


I hope these tips for how to bounce back after vacation were helpful. Leave a comment and let me know some of your favorite (or least favorite) ways to recover from a long trip.

30 Ways to Relax Without Watching Netflix

30 Ways to Relax Without Watching Netflix

The Problem with Netflix

I have a love/hate relationship with Netflix. I’m not going to go so far as to say that watching tv is always bad, or that life is always better when television is out of the picture. What I do know for me is that too much television can definitely have a negative effect on my life. For one, it becomes a crutch, and I forget how to relax without watching Netflix. Anytime I have a free moment and I’m remotely tired, I turn to Netflix. Secondly, I really struggle with watching just one episode of anything. I love closure and rarely does a show give good closure at the end of an episode. With those two factors, Netflix can consume any available space I give it. The most disappointing factor, however, is that I don’t actually feel well-rested after a couple hours of watching a show. It’s such a let down.

The Alternative

If I cut television out entirely, I tend to give more space to the things that require a little more work but are more fulfilling to me, such as reading or working on a project. If I don’t have energy for those things, then I know that I should probably just get some actual rest. For these reasons, we recently cancelled our Netflix account. It felt like a pretty big adjustment the first few days. We would finish up dinner and look at each other, wondering what on earth we were going to do with our evening. Now that we’ve adjusted, it’s amazing how much more time we have for the things that are more meaningful to us.

But some days I am really tired and it’s still way too early to go to bed. After staring at a computer screen at work all day, reading might not sound like the best activity. I’ve had to think outside of the box to consider new ways to relax now that television isn’t my default. I thought you might be struggling with the same thing, so today I’m sharing 30 ways to relax without watching Netflix. As a bonus, most of these options are also free or cheap too!

30 Ways to Relax Without Watching Netflix

Listen to Audiobooks

Charles and I really enjoy listening to audiobooks together. It gives my eyes a break at the end of the day, but it still feels more worthwhile than watching a show. It’s also an enjoyable activity that we can do together.  Here are some tips for finding great audiobooks.

Listen to Podcasts

There are so many great podcasts out there, both entertaining and educational. I love to listen to podcasts as a way to dip my toes into a subject that intimidates me. I listen to podcasts a lot while I’m driving and cooking, but if I’m not doing anything then I enjoy playing solitaire or freecell on my phone to keep my hands busy while I listen.

Do Something With Your Hands

There’s something so special about actually creating something in the physical world. Working with your hands feels like a lost art.

Read a book

If picking up a book doesn’t sound relaxing, think about going back to an old favorite or finding an easy book to read.

Crochet or Knit

This can be an incredibly relaxing activity, especially once you have it down.

Play a game on your phone

These can be just as addictive as Netflix, I think, so proceed with caution. But I enjoy playing something relatively mindless while I listen to audiobooks or podcasts.

Color

There are so many fun coloring books out there these days. This one and this one look like a lot of fun.

Play Sudoku

You can order a book online or get an app.

Take a bath

Make it extra relaxing with bath salts. 

Find new music

Try finding new artists you’ll love with Spotify or YouTube.

Go for a leisurely walk

These are always more relaxing than I think they’re going to be. Go with your favorite human, take a pet, or just enjoy whatever’s in your earbuds.

Flip through a magazine

If you’re anything like me, you probably have a backlog of magazines you’ve been meaning to read through.

Intentionally scroll through social media

The important thing is not to do this mindlessly. Maybe set a timer so that there’s a limited amount of time, or have just a few accounts you want to check. Social media can be really encouraging and inspiring if  you let it be. You just have to learn how to use the tool the right way.

Call a loved one

As an introvert, this doesn’t sound super relaxing to me. But for you more extroverted readers, this might be the perfect way to kick your feet back.

Try hand lettering

There are all kinds of free tutorials on the internet.

Watch some worthwhile YouTube videos

I think I might be the only millennial that doesn’t regularly watch YouTube. I hear there’s some great stuff out there that’s definitely worth checking out.

Play a board game

Not all games have to be intense, thinking games.

Meet a friend for coffee

Bonus points if it’s a quiet, calm atmosphere. As an introvert, this doesn’t totally fit into the relaxing category, but I’m sure it will for many of  you.

Meditate

There are a lot of neat resources for meditation these days. I’ve been wanting to try out Headspace.

Take a nap

I think this is the epitome of relaxation.

Bullet journal

You can start new lists, like where you want to go on vacation, books you want to read, skills you’d like to learn, and so on.

Try out a new recipe

What’s better than being well-fed and relaxed?

Enjoy a glass of your favorite drink

A glass of wine on someone’s back porch sounds like heaven right now.

Listen to music

It’s probably been a long time since you’ve done nothing but lay there and listen to your favorite music. Consider revisiting some of your favorites this way and get lost in the music. It would also be a great way to try out a new album.

Pet your animal

This is good therapy for you and them.

Practice an instrument

This is more likely relaxing if you’re not a brand new beginner.

Try your hand at painting or drawing

It doesn’t have to be any good. Just let your mind wander while you do it and I promise it’ll be relaxing.

Write something

Whether it’s a hand-written letter to a friend or in your journal, writing can be incredibly relaxing.

Do yoga or light stretching

You’ll be amazed how much better your body will feel afterwards

Go for a bike ride

Just take a leisurely ride around the neighborhood. The fresh air will feel amazing.

Organize

For some reason, getting into the groove of organization can feel really meditative for me. I’m sure some of you will feel this way too.


So there you have it, 30 ways to relax without watching Netflix. If you’re thinking about cutting back on tv so that it’s not your default relaxation activity, try creating your own list of relaxing activities. That way, when you’re in the moment and nothing is coming to you except your favorite show, you’ll have some ideas of your own. Anything I missed? I’d love to hear what’s on your list!

8 Non-Fiction Books I’ve Read Again and Again

8 Non-Fiction Books I’ve Read Again and Again

I’m not much of a re-reader. This applies to both fiction and non-fiction. I’m not sure why this is. Part of it is that I tend to have a scarcity mindset. If I read a book too much, I’m afraid it’ll lose its magic. Maybe I’ll get bored with it, or maybe it won’t be as good as I thought it was. Another reason is because there are so many books in the world. I know I can’t read all of them, so reading the same ones over again seems like a waste. Nevertheless, there are a handful of non-fiction books that I’ve read more than once. In some of them the information was just that good. In others, I find their ideas helpful and thought-provoking. A few of them have helped me to understand myself better, unlocking doors to parts of myself that I didn’t realize existed.

The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

I adore Gretchen Rubin. She has such a unique way of investigating the world and I find her insights so enlightening. In this book she recounts her year-long happiness experiment in which she focused on building new habits and trying new things each month for an entire year, all with the end goal of making her happier. At first I was turned off by the book. The idea of focusing on one’s own happiness felt selfish and self-absorbed to me. But after giving the book a shot, I realized that happiness is about much more than making yourself feel good. Her lessons can be applied to making those around you happier, developing your spiritual life, and overall self-improvement too. I’m not sure I’ll ever have the self-discipline to do a year-long project like hers, but I think it’s fascinating to read about.

Better than Before by Gretchen Rubin

This second book by Gretchen Rubin felt like a really natural progression. The Happiness Project was all about what she could do to be happier, much of which involved developing new habits or getting rid of bad ones. Better than Before is all about habits. There are so many wonderful insights in this book. I’ve already read it twice and I know I’ll probably keep coming back to it again and again as I grow and change.

168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think by Laura Vanderkam

This book completely revolutionized how I thought about time management. The main premise of the book is that we should look at our lives in weeks built up of 168 hours. If you:

sleep 8 hours/night = 56 hours

work = 45 hours

chores 1 hour/day = 7 hours

meals 2 hours/day = 14 hours

remainder = 46 hours

That leaves you with 46 hours each week to spend with our family, work on our hobbies, start a side-hustle, or whatever else it is that’s important to you. There’s so much freedom in realizing how much time we have that we can put toward the things we care about, as long as we’re intentional. There is lots more practical advice in the book. It’s definitely worth checking out.

Make it Happen by Lara Casey

Lara seems like one of those magical people that can get an inordinate amount of impressive stuff done and still look good doing it. What I love about this book is her vulnerability in her honest and unflinching story. She provides some great questions so that you can dig deep and get a better idea of who you are and what your dreams are. Once you’ve started figuring that out, she helps you set goals to go after those dreams. For me, the best part about the book is the spiritual side. I don’t see a lot of people examine the spiritual side of productivity and goal-setting, so this was a fresh perspective that I really enjoyed.

The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine Aron

In this book, Elaine Aron shares her research on more highly sensitive people. This can be sensitivity emotionally and physically. This was such a fascinating book for several reasons. First of all, it made me more aware of all the ways I’m unusually sensitive, especially physically. Previously, I would try to ignore when I was overstimulated, like in a really loud, busy room for a long period of time. Now that I know to look for it, I realize how those situations are making me feel and can either change my circumstances or at least be a little more understanding with myself. Another thing I loved about the book is that it opened my eyes to how others might be sensitive in ways that I’m not. I’ve shared this book with several other people and it’s let to some really great conversations and deep insights.

Skin Cleanse by Adina Grigore

In this book, Adina talks about how a person’s lifestyle as a whole affects their skin. She also gives recommendations and recipes for how to have a more natural approach to skincare. To be honest, I don’t know whether or not the science behind this is good. But the concepts were interesting enough to me to come back a second time. I definitely noticed a major improvement in my skin when I started eating more vegetables, as she recommends. I’m also impressed that she gave out the recipes for all the products that her company sells.

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve probably heard of this book (no judgments if you haven’t. I too like to occupy dwellings under rocks.) Marie Kondo is famous for her advice about decluttering. I started reading this book the first time because I wanted motivation to declutter my own life. I continued reading it because she’s so extreme and it’s fascinating to me. After finishing, I couldn’t bring myself to find the time to follow most of her advice, though perhaps I will the next time we move.

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking by Susan Cain

Susan Cain is an absolute genius. In this book, she shares lots of research, stories of successful introverts, and invaluable advice for navigating the world as an introvert. Introverts and extroverts alike need to read this book. As an introvert, it will help you understand yourself more and do a better job of setting yourself up for success. As an extrovert, this book will help you understand all those mysterious quiet people in your life.


There are definitely more books I plan on adding to this list soon. The Power of Habit, Reading People, and A Million Little Ways are all books I’ve read once and plan to read again.

Are you a re-reader? What non-fiction books have you gone back to again and again?

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